Jul 15, 2022
Ceremony is not part of our society in the way it used to be, especially when it comes to the passage of a boy into manhood. Our guest today is tying to change that. Returning to the show for a deep dive into why we need ceremony is Eric Browning. Along with being a father and a husband, he’s the founder of Sand 2 Stone which helps fathers guide their sons on their journey to becoming the men they were created to be.
Website: http://sand2stone.us
Email: info@sand2stone.us
Expanded Notes:
- A boy needs a man to guide him into manhood; in a post-industrial revolution society this no longer happens naturally as a boy works along side his dad
- Ceremony happens in a sacred space, something different than common space; it marks something special and memorable
- As boys grow and mature, ceremonies help them mark those transitions and honor their increased capacity to understand and act
- A boy’s relationship with his mom also needs attention, allowing for separation and transition, especially around the 12-13 age timeframe
- Rite of passage can either move a boy toward rebellion or toward independence; don’t outsource the responsibility to guide your son toward his independence
- A good place to start is to gather with a few other like-minded men and fathers and start talking about what it means to be a man
- Additional steps include blessing your son, making a commitment (covenant) with him, model for him active faith in God, and then find a natural time in his development to call him into manhood
- Book resources:
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- The Power of Moments by Dan Heath & Chip Heath
- Raising a Modern Day Knight by Robert Lewis
- The Intentional Father by Jon Tyson
- The Manhood Formation Plan pdf resource