TNMU #151: Relearning What It Means To Be Alpha

Mar 26, 2021

The examples of Alpha Males today are almost always biased to aggressive, macho, harsh, uncaring. While that may be what’s on display, it’s not consistent with the example found in nature, specifically with wolves. The Alpha of the wolf pack is so much more and worthy of studying further for a more complete picture of what it means to be a pack leader. Mark and Josh examine this idea courtesy of the Sawtooth Wolf Pack. 

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Expanded Notes:

• Defining what the traditional view of an alpha looks like
• The idea of alpha comes from pack animals, such as wolves, but it’s been misunderstood
• The Wisdom of Wolves, by Jim & Jamie Dutcher
• Conclusions from wolf pack life:
  • The lone wolf doesn’t last long without a pack; the alpha is a pack leader
  • The alpha shoulders the responsibility for the wellbeing of the pack
  • Over aggressiveness, bullying, belittling are symptoms of a weak and insecure leader with a strong shell of self protection
  • The alpha needs the omega to initiate play and diffuse tension
  • The alpha recognizes the need for pack members and the important roles they play
  • Younglings are allowed to be pups and simultaneously watched over, providing what they need to be fully functioning pack member
  • An alpha is aware of what individual pack members needs are
• Good to Great, Jim Collins
• Jesus’ story about the dysfunction between two boys and their dad: The Story of the Lost Son
• From the blog: Three Lessons On Leading Your Family From The Wisdom Of Wolves